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Apr 17

This Moment: April 17

by Stacey

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“I am going to try to pay attention to the spring. I am going to look around at all the flowers, and look up at the hectic trees. I am going to close my eyes and listen.”

-Anne Lamott

 

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Apr 10

Happy Ninth Birthday Katherine

by Stacey

IMG_6388Katherine often asks to hear her birth story. When I tell it, I think her favorite part is that I went in for a regular doctor’s appointment, two weeks before her due date, and came home two days later with a baby. I think she likes the element of surprise.

Somehow, I feel equally surprised that my baby girl turns nine today. All the cliches fit in here nicely. Time flies. I remember that day like it was yesterday and on and on. There is just something about your youngest getting older. The girls recently informed me that one becomes a tween when they turn nine. Maybe that explains why I’m feeling so undone these days. Is it possible that both of my girls are now tweens? That they are both closer to being teenagers than they are to being toddlers?

Katherine has to remind me over and over again that she is no longer little. She wears the same size flip flops that I do. She asked for much more jewelry and clothes than she did toys this year. She amazes us constantly with her skills as a dancer and as a piano player. She is no longer just playing around with the things she loves. She is perfecting them. She participates in family conversations and is very often the wise, voice of reason. She makes us laugh and not in a silly way but in a really smart way. She loves to read and write and is becoming a 21st century learner, communicating with her teacher on line in a way that leaves me pretty much unneeded in the conversation. She is a great friend and is learning each day the values that she most respects in others and in herself.

There is a big part of me that misses the little girl that Katherine once was but there is an even bigger part of me that is excited to get to know this big girl because she is truly great.

Happy Birthday Katherine! I hope your day is as amazing as you are.

 

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Apr 08

New-to-Me Authors

by Stacey

There are thousands upon thousands of books published each year. Therefore, I don’t know why I am surprised every single time when I find amazing new authors but I am. Recently, I stumbled upon two authors that are just genius that I want more and more people to know about.

Carin Berger commented on my blog earlier this year and while her name was familiar to me, I realized that somehow we had never  read her books.

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Her latest title is Finding Spring which is something that took an awfully long time to do around these parts this year. Perhaps our lingering winter made Finding Spring especially sweet but I came to realize that all of Carin’s work is to be treasured. She uses cut paper collage that is so fun to examine closely. You see little snippets of writing scattered on scrap paper used to create amazing illustrations. The  stories in each of her books that we read including The Little Yellow Leaf, A Perfect Day and Forever Friends were great studies of both nature, the power of friendship and never feeling alone.

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Along with Carin, we also discovered Sebastian Meschenmoser. My amazing friend Jules of Seven Impossible Things is to thank for this new-to-me author. And no secret here- she is often the one to lead me in a great direction. Waiting for Winter is no longer a seasonally appropriate read but I encourage you to check it out none the less. The expressions on the faces of the animals in this tale are among the best I have seen. Somehow in what appears to be simple pencil sketches, you can read in to the minds and the imaginations of these creatures who are out to find the first snowfall. The second title we read was Mr. Squirrel and the Moon. In this tale, Mr. Squirrel’s imagination runs wild and it is awfully fun to pretend right along with him.

I hope you enjoy these new-to-me authors as much as I did.

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Apr 06

Let The Readers Choose

by Stacey

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This summer I am teaching a class through The Writers Circle called “A Reader’s Writing Club.” The goal of the class is to connect children as readers and writers and to help them learn from each other through discussion and from both art forms. A writer must read and a reader should write, or so I believe.

In planning this class, I have been reminded of a belief that I hold very strongly.

In order to raise readers, children must be given choices.

Many children who believe they are not readers have simply not been given the right books. Of course there are children who will not enjoy reading even when given choice and of course there are children for whom reading will always be difficult and therefore, not enjoyable. But that said, there are many non-readers who would be readers if they were presented with different titles.

Sara Kadjer, a professor and author posted the following on Facebook:

“I’m struggling a bit here and need some clarity from our community here.

Just had book fair with one of the boys and watched as kids wandered aimlessly, barely picking anything up. Knowing some of these kids, I asked them what was up (as my son wasn’t talking…). Apparently, they were each told a lexile band and/or AR level that a book must be in order to be appropriate for them. The offerings on the shelves were rich (books by Kate Messner, Rick Riordan, Tom Angleberger, Lisa McMann, Eliot Schrefer, amongst so many other smart, engaging writers). Hands were empty as each book was labelled with the corresponding numbers – and very few were “rigorous” enough. Overheard by two excited readers who were writing down a list of books – “we can read these in the summer when it is for fun.” 

Matt turned and asked me why more writers weren’t writing books at his level. I shared that no writer worth reading is considering lexile scores and AR levels of their work. (Right?) His response? “Then why do we follow them in school?”

Help…’

Ugh. Can  you imagine if you walked in to a book store filled with awesome choices and you were told that you could only pick the hard stuff? Just this past week, I read a young adult novel, We All Looked Up and a mystery, The Stranger.  I’m pretty sure that I could read harder books but I’m also pretty sure that while sitting poolside, these books were just right for me.

To me, the importance of giving children choice just couldn’t be clearer. There are certainly times in school when students should all read and discuss the same book. And there are times when teachers should assign books to address certain themes or encourage certain discussions. I believe, though, that  there are many, many more times when children should be given the choice to read what they want to read.

If you want to get on my soap box with me, I strongly encourage you to read the article, “Great Books That Inspire a Love of Reading in Kids-Recommended by Kids.” The article describes in detail the reading program at The Center for Teaching and Learning, a demonstration school in Maine founded by master teacher Nancie Atwell. Atwell writes,

“We know that students need time to read, at school and home, every day. We understand that when particular children love their particular books, reading is more likely to happen during the time set aside for it. And we have learned that the only sure-fire way to induce a love of books is to invite students to select their own.”

She goes on to say,

“Our students have demonstrated that opportunities to consider, select, and reconsider books make reading feel sensible and attractive to children right from the start-that they’ll read more books than we dreamed possible and more challenging books than we dreamed of assigning them.”

I truly believe that if every teacher and every parent embraced the beliefs held by the teachers at The Center for Teaching and Learning, we would live in a nation of readers.

I’d love for you to read the article and then come back and tell me what you think.

And while you are at it, check out the great book lists created by students at The Center for Teaching and Learning’s website

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Apr 04

April Love: Shadows

by Stacey

We traveled to Clearwater, Florida last week and the sunsets were truly spectacular.

And then I read the best quote ever about sunsets…

“There’s a sunrise and sunset every day, and you can choose to be there for it. You can put yourself in the way of beauty.” – Cheryl Strayed

Here are some of our sunsets for you to enjoy…

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Apr 02

April Love: My Favorite Flowers

by Stacey

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Today I’m continuing on with Susannah Conway’s April Love.

Today’s prompt: My Favorite Flowers

For a long time, my favorite flowers were tulips. Yellow especially. I was really disappointed when I realized that I would not be able to carry tulips in our wedding. Turns out when it is June in New England there just aren’t any tulips available as much as you would like them. I also am partial to blue hydrangeas. I love arriving in Nantucket to see hydrangeas around every corner and in front of nearly every house. When we put our house on the market a few years ago, I filled our house with hydrangeas and I think they brought us luck.

Right now though, daffodils are my hands down favorite. our Trader Joe’s started carrying daffodils a few weeks ago and I can’t get enough of them. When I buy them, they are small tight buds that look like them will come to nothing and in a day or two they are full, gorgeous flowers.

Despite all the robins that are playing on our front yard, spring is having a hard time settling this year.

For now, my store bought yellow daffodils sitting on my kitchen window sill are helping me believe that one day, spring will be here in earnest.

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Apr 01

April Love: My Morning View

by Stacey

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I love anything that Susannah Conway does from her journaling class to her August Break series to her Blogging from the Heart classes. When I read that she was kicking off a new series called April Love, I did a little happy dance. I can’t wait to see what she brings to us this month.

Today’s prompt is ‘My Morning View.’ I thought for this go round, I would give a try at photo and journal prompts like I did a long time back when I took Ali Edwards 31 Things class.

After reading Gretchen Rubin’s Better Than Before, I have been thinking an awful lot about habits. Rubin’s premise is that people fit in to one of four tendencies and our tendency informs the way we make and break habits. I am very clearly an Obliger, a person who really needs external motivation to change and keep habits. Rob, however, is anUpholder, a person who succeeds with internal motivation alone.

The differences in habits is crystal clear in the morning. Rob rises and shines right when the alarm goes off. It doesn’t matter if he has a work meeting or is simply getting up to go for a run. He never, ever hits snooze. I, on the other hand, have a strong love/hate relationship with my snooze button. Each night, as I fall asleep, I promise myself that I will jump right out of bed as soon as the alarm goes off. And each morning, I snooze and then snooze again. Eventually I make it downstairs to catch a few minutes of quiet before I wake the girls. More often than not, my ‘morning view’ involves a lot of coffee and a little bit of blog reading.

How about you? What do you see when your eyes are first opening?

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Mar 30

Picture Book Favorites: March Edition

by Stacey

I usually post about picture books at least once a month and often twice but somehow I haven’t written about our latest favorites since early February. I don’t know exactly what this winter did my productivity but it was nothing good I can tell you that!

I’m still not sure that spring is on it’s way but I seem to be coming out of my lull none the less. Here are our current picture book favorites.
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Red: A Crayon’s Story by Michael Hall. What’s to come of a red crayon that will only color in blue? First a lot of disappointment but over time he comes to realize that he has his own set of strengths. This is a perfect book for anyone who is searching for the ‘real me.’

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The Storm Whale by Benji Davies. A little boy is very lonely during the day when his fisherman father is out on the water. Therefore, when he finds a beached baby whale, he is more than happy to bring his new friend home and plop him in the bathtub. When the family eventually brings the whale back to the ocean, the little boy learns what it means to have a friend.

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Goodnight Already by Jory John & Benji Davies. This book was laugh out loud funny for adults and children alike. And the best part was that the nagging duck reminded Katherine of the nagging mouse in A Visitor for Bear. I love it when she makes these connections!

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Smick written by Doreen Cronin & illustrated by Juana Medina. With no more than two words on each page, the author shows the power of few words as a full story is told. This book would make an awesome and engaging early reader!

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Bad Dog Flash by Ruth Paul. When Katherine was learning how to read, I wrote a lot about ‘read together’ books. We loved these type of books that allowed an early reader to experience a sense of independence while reading. In these books, the grown up reads most of the text but then there are repeated lines of text throughout the book that allow the new reader to feel a great sense of confidence. Bad Dog Flash is a perfect read together story of a sweet little dog who is quite bad until he isn’t.

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Special Delivery written by Phillip Stead and illustrated by Matthew Cordell. These creators are two of my favorites so I was super exited to read this tale of a little girl on a mission to mail an elephant to her Great Aunt Josephine. The book was great although I still love Stead’s Sick Day for Amos McGee and Cordell’s Another Brother more.

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Wolfie the Bunny by Ame Dyckman and illustrated by Zachariah OHora. This tale of a bunny family who welcomes in a baby wolf is a great alternative to the sappy new baby stories that are out there. It is even funny enough to read if there are no new babies in your house.

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