Stacey Loscalzo

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Jan 25

Read Aloud

by Stacey

 

I had lunch this week with my dear friend Donna. I love our time together, always walking away from the restaurant more relaxed and wiser than when I entered.

Yesterday, our conversation turned to the story of Donna’s only child learning to read. Her son is now 28 and her description was vivid. She recalled watching her son as he listened for hours to books on tape that his grandmother had given to him as a birthday present. As he turned pages at all the correct spots, she assumed he had memorized the story after listening to it so many times. You can guess where this is going…

One day she and her husband sat on the patio reading the New York Times, their son at their feet listening to his books. After some time had passed, Donna felt her four year old climb on to the foot of the patio chair. Suddenly, she heard him talking with words that sounded an awful lot like newspaper headlines. She stuck her head around the corner of the paper to discover that he was indeed reading the paper.

He had learned to read,  just like that, she said. Just like that he was learned to read.

Although she and I both know that it wasn’t just like that. It was after hours upon hours of listening to books. Be it books read by parents, books read by tape or today, books read by apps, hearing stories read aloud is the single most powerful way to help children become readers.

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Jan 24

Awards

by Stacey

All year long I read excellent reviews of Chris Raschka’s Ball for Daisy. And then, for some unexplained reason, I didn’t read it.

And then all my favorite bloggers wrote over and over again about how much they loved Jack Gantos’ Dead End in Norvelt. And I didn’t read it.

Well,  A Ball for Daisy won the Caldecott Medal and Dead End in Norvelt won the Newbery.

To the bookstore to catch up with the rest of the world…

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Jan 23

Snow Puppy

by Stacey

So I could write about how our first real snow storm of the year. How between the flakes, Caroline and I went on a Brownie sleepover and Rob and I went to our elementary school’s progressive dinner. I could write about reading good books while we watched the flakes fall.

Or I could post a picture of the cutest snow puppy on the planet.

I mean really…

But really, all I want to do is show off my favorite snow puppy!

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Jan 20

The Reading Pile

by Stacey

Sometimes I have a really hard time focusing on what to read. The other day, I realized I was in such a period. I looked over at the stack on my desk and could hardly chose what to pick up next.

I love to read books on my new Kindle. And for a surprising reason. I have always struggled with underlining when reading. I want to but then I can’t find a pen. I will fold down pages with beautiful passages and then forget to go back and find them. Right now I am reading Divisadero by Michael Ondaajte (author of The English Patient) at the suggestion of my wonderful virtual and luckily, real world friend, Lindsey. Somehow I never knew of this author and his writing is just incredible. I am underlining like crazy. I love my Kindle for this.

But then I am also reading gorgeous children’s books like Peter Sis’ spectacular Conference of the Birds. I find that whenever I read grown up books, I miss children’s literature and then when I go back to children’s literature I miss grown up literature.

Oh the problems.. .

So then I sprinkle in magazines like my favorite children’s literature journal, The Horn Book or my favorite grown up magazine, O, The Oprah Magazine. Unfortunately, doing this does not make my choices more clear. Instead, I simply add more books to my ever growing and enormous wish list.

And then I become even more confused.

Perhaps I should just stop typing and go read. That might help…

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Jan 19

Big and Little

by Stacey

Just yesterday I wrote about Katherine’s first experience with choosing her own books from among the vast array of her school library shelves. 

Again,this week,  she went for some oldies but goodies. I was thrilled to be able to share Babar with her. I have to admit that the whole shooting thing in the first book has kept me from reading one of my own childhood favorites to the girls.

But then the best part became not the story but her reason for choosing them.

She said, “I chose Babar because it was the biggest book I could find. And then I chose the cat one because it was the smallest.”

Of course…

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Jan 18

The Library Smell

by Stacey

Katherine’s kindergarten class goes to the library once a week. Before the winter holiday break, the librarian filled round tables with appropriate books for the children. By doing this, she kept her youngest patrons from going crazily through her shelves and creating library mayhem.

After the break though, the children were introduced to browsing sticks and shown to the shelves. Katherine talked about this rite of passage with amazing pride. She told me step by step the proper way to look for books, where to place your browsing stick and where to put your book if your stick falls out but you don’t want to bring that book home. The librarian had thought of everything.

And then, as if a drum roll played in the background, Katherine showed me her first independent library choice.  At Mary Bloom’s by Aliki published in 1987.

Of course, the book was dated and looked so. At first, I was a bit disappointed. Perhaps I wasn’t looking forward to a year filled with reading out of print books that somehow caught Katherine’s eye. And I opened the book. Not only was the story quite sweet but the book had a smell. The exact smell of Rumford Public Library, my childhood library. A library hundred’s of miles away from Somerville.

If you sniff, can you smell it? I bet you can. And I bet it brings back some pretty good memories…

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Jan 17

Choices

by Stacey

If given the choice among Fundamentals of Income Taxation, The Babysitters Club and Primary Phonics, the cat chooses Primary Phonics.

Wise cat.

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Jan 16

Hope

by Stacey

 

I have a dream that my four children will one day live in a nation where they will not be judged by the color of their skin but by the content of their character.

Martin Luther King, Jr.

Let’s hope, as the girls stand in front of the monument to Martin Luther King Jr., that we are at least closer to that dream than we were the day he said it. We can at least hope..

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Jan 13

Artful Parent Post

by Stacey

There are certain blogs that make me smile every time I read them. Jean at Artful Parent writes such a blog. Her posts make me wish I could be one of her little girls just for a day, exploring and creating playful works of art.

When she announced that she would be taking a digital sabbatical (what a great term!) and was looking for guest bloggers I jumped at the chance to join her creative space.

Check out my guest post here and then, if she is new to you, be sure to check back often for inspiration and smiles.

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Jan 12

Get Them Reading

by Stacey

My dear friend Lucy has started writing a new blog. I was thrilled to be included in one of her first posts. Thinking about Lucy’s questions inspired me to write my thoughts below on getting reluctant readers reading. After you check out Lucy’s post, come back here and then share your thoughts with me.

As most parents imagine, there is a secret to getting your children to love reading. But the secret is surprisingly simple. Read yourself, read to them and let them read anything to themselves that they want.

We don’t expect our children to learn to drive before they’ve watched us behind the wheel for  17 years. We shouldn’t expect them to learn to read before we’ve read and read and read in front of them and to them. We all know that children do what we do, not we say so if we want our children to be readers, we ourselves have to be readers.

And as is true with children, we as adults can read just about anything we want in order model good reading behavior. As long as we are prioritizing reading over other activities, our children will too. If I ever find myself getting too busy to read, I read middle grade or young adult novels. By definition, they can be easier to read but equally if not more thought provoking than adult books.

My favorites from 2011 were, Ok for Now by Gary Schmidt, Inside Out and Back Again by Thanhha Lai and A Long Walk to Water by Linda Sue Park.

And then read aloud to your children for as long as you can and definitely after they have started to read on their own. Read often during the day, not just at bed time. Keep books all over the house to make this easy. A basket at the breakfast table, a basket in the car, books in your purse.

And read to children who can read to themselves. Children’s listening comprehension and reading comprehension do not converge until the 8th grade. Therefore, you are able to read books to them that they are not yet able to read to themselves. This activity loads their brain with new vocabulary, comprehension skills and a fantastic model of what fluent reading sounds like. Reading aloud sounds too easy but in fact, as Marilyn Jager Adams, author of Beginning to Read states, “Reading aloud with children is known to be the single most important activity for building the knowledge and skills they will eventually require for learning to read.“ And I will add, that it is the activity that will keep your children reading to themselves once they are able to do so.

 I find great read aloud titles through children’s literature blogs. There are tons of them but my current favorites are Seven Impossible Things Before Breakfast, Playing by the Book and A Fuse #8 Production.

Research shows that to be strong and avid readers, children need to read a lot. One study reports that proficient fourth grade readers read for at least 2 and a half hours a day while the poorest fourth grade readers read for only half an hour a day.

Often we look for magic bells and whistles to get our non-readers reading when the solution is so simple. Let them read.

Literally think in terms of quantity not quality, at first. Jim Trelease, author of The Read Aloud Handbook states, “[Research] demonstrates the powerful role that recreational “lite” reading…plays in developing good and lifetime readers. Is it classic literature? Of course not. Does it have a better chance of creating fluent readers that the classics would? Definitely. And  can it eventually lead to the classics? Yes, and certainly sooner than would The Red Badge of Courage.” So let these kids read series books, comic books, e-books. Literally whatever they want.

My favorite places to go to find great titles that children love include the Children’s Choices Project (yearly lists of books kids love are posted as far back as 1998) and the Cybils Awards list, which this year has added an entire category for book apps.

So off to find great books…

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