Happy New Year
by Stacey
Read more“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
-Mary Oliver
Read more“Tell me, what is it you plan to do with your one wild and precious life?”
-Mary Oliver
In the past, I have never been a big public goal setter. Maybe because I have not been a big goal setter in general. I have always hesitated to declare New Year’s Resolution and won’t do so this year either but I think I am ready to go public with a few goals. I’m still shying away from from publicly declaring that I will get up every day at 6am, that I will stop over consuming sugar or that I will handwrite in a journal every day for at least five minutes although it’s possible that I am considering these goals.
What I am willing do is to go public with my reading goals. Reading is something that I make time for every single day so I think it is realistic that I can set and then meet my goals.
I have a few different types so here goes…
1. The Great New Books 2015 Reading Challenge
Our wonderful team at Great New Books has created a new page with our 2015 Reading Challenge. Please go check it out and add your goals to ours.
My Great New Books 2015 Reading Challenge is to read 52 books in 2015.
2. The Book Riot Read Harder Challenge
The folks at Book Riot have created an amazing list of challenges to push readers out of their comfort zone. There are 24 challenges included in the list. Examples include, read a book written by someone when they were under the age of 25, read a YA novel or read a book that is a retelling of a classic story. I haven’t narrowed down which challenges I will accept but I plan to tackle a few. I am guilty of reading an awful lot of realistic fiction set in the present day.
3. Broke and Bookish’s Bookish Tuesdays
It was just a few weeks ago that I discovered the Broke and the Bookish and I am hooked. Each Tuesday, the Broke and Bookish team host a Top 10 Book List link up. Their themes are really fun and have already pushed me to think about what I’ve read and what I hope to read. I plan continue participating with Top Ten Tuesdays this year spending time listing both adult and children’s books depending on the theme.
4. Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Quick Lit
I began participating in Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Twitterature link up around two years ago. It has become my way to list the books I’ve read every month. Recently Anne changed the title of the link up to Quick Lit which I just love. I plan to continue participating in 2015.
5. Goodreads
I have been on Goodreads for a long time and I do a reasonably good job of keeping track of my adult books read. This year I would like to find a better way to organize the children’s books I read along with books that I want to read.
And there they are. My 2015 Reading Goals. I’ve gone public. Help keep me honest.
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We spent the weekend in Providence, celebrating Christmas with my mom. We stayed downtown and I spent time getting to know Providence again. Or really, I should say, getting to know Providence. It has changed so very much since I left for college. Providence is really an amazing city. I’m looking forward to going back soon!
Read more“You cannot be peaceful and hurried.”
-Joyce Meyer
I hope that you all enjoy peaceful and festive days. Merry Christmas to those who celebrate and I will be back in this space next week.
Read moreAfter participating in Modern Mrs. Darcy’s Quick Lit link up last week, I discovered a great new-to-me blog called The Broke and the Bookish. There are many fun aspects to this blog but my favorite is their Bookish Tuesday link up which features a great, weekly top ten list.
I decided to jump in this week with….
The Top Ten Books I wouldn’t Mind Santa Bringing This Year
Last week Kristen at Little Lodestar wrote a fantastic piece titled, Nine Things I Wonder About Other Writers. I don’t remember how I first ‘met’ Kristen but I have so enjoyed getting to know her through her on-line writing and Instagram photography. I am thrilled that Kristen wrote this post because her answers and those of many other writers who have taken the post to their own blogs are amazingly great to read. It is rare to have the chance to see ‘behind the scenes’ in to another writer’s world so I loved the chance to do so as I read posts written by Nina Badzin, Lindsey (A Design So Vast), Lara Anderson (Joy, Lovely Joy), Justine Uhlenbrock (Heirloom Mothering) and Andrea Jarrell.
Do you share your work with your partner or spouse? Does it matter if it’s been published yet?
Rob reads my blog most days- I think! I don’t usually give him work to proof read although I probably should more often than I do.
How much of your family and/or closest “friends in real life first” read your stuff…let alone give you feedback about it?
My mom and my in-laws read my blog every day. I have a few ‘in-real-life’ friends who read daily as well and I am always so thankful when they talk with me about something I have written. I am also very lucky to have a good friend who read my blog early in the morning and often catches my typos in time for me to fix them before many other people have seen them.
What I find really funny are ‘in-real-life’ people who I talk to and then realize that they read my blog. They will know something that I know I haven’t told them or more obviously, they will reference a post I have written.
What do you do with the pieces that continually get rejected–post on your blog? Trash? When do you know it’s time to let it go?
I am just recently choosing to post rejected pieces on my blog. My goal in writing is always to start a discussion so I’ve realized there really is no better place than my blog to do just that. I will continue to submit to other places but it is a bit liberating to realize that I can always get my words out to others by posting right here.
Are there pieces you write for one very specific place that, once rejected, you just let go of, or do you rework into something else?
See above.
What is your main source of reading-based inspiration (especially you essayists)? Blogs? Magazines? Journals? Anthologies? Book of essays by one writer?
I like to think that I read a lot of magazines and essay anthologies but truth be told, most of my non-fiction reading is on blogs. I read a ton of books but they are almost always fiction.
What tends to spark ideas more for you: what you see/hear in daily life or what you read?
I would say my ideas come pretty equally from the real world and from what I read both on and off line.
Who have you read in the past year or two that you feel is completely brilliant but so underappreciated?
Hmm… I’m afraid nothing is coming to me for this one…
Without listing anything written by Dani Shapiro, Anne Lamott, Lee Gutkind, or Natalie Goldberg, what craft books are “must haves”?
Other than the authors listed above, my favorite writing book is Lisa Garrigues’ Writing Motherhood. I participated in writing workshops with Lisa years ago and so loved my time with her.
Have you ever regretted having something published? Was it because of the content or the actual writing style/syntax?
I don’t tend to re-read my writing very often and I’m glad. I’m quite sure there would be some things I wished I hadn’t shared quite so publicly but I can’t think of anything off the top of my head.
Thank you Kristen for giving me the chance to think about my own writing process and to learn about the writing world of others….
Read moreRead more“Improve your spare moments and they will become the brightest gems in your life.”
-Ralph Waldo Emerson
I feel so very lucky to be a part of Great New Books. It was over a year ago that I was asked to join this team blog and I have loved every minute of my time with this amazing group of women.
Each week, one of us recommends a favorite new book on our site. We do not accept books for review so all of the books we talk about are titles that we have found on our own and loved. I knew I would love being a part of a group that talked about books but this group has become so much more than that. After the weekly post goes live, our fantastic leader, Jennifer King, sends out a group e-mail. This e-mail is part business but it is also friendship, support and humor. Each week I look forward to our check in and I truly love to open my e-mail each Wednesday morning. I know I will learn more about the women behind Great New Books, their families and what they are loving and what is scaring them in their lives. We have become a sounding board, a support group and a cheering section. Of course, we also share the books that we are currently reading so every Wednesday you can be sure my to-be-read pile grows taller.
As we reach the end of the year, we will be sharing group posts, the first of which runs this week.
Please head on over to Great New Books to discover our favorite book of the year and share your own and maybe learn a bit more about these women who I am proud to call my friends.
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I was in Providence for a few days this week and drove by my school as I often do when I am home. I attended Lincoln School for Girls from 5th grade until I graduated. At the time, I didn’t think too much about going to all girls school beyond the annoyance of it as a teenager sitting around a lunch table.
As an adult, I feel so very lucky to have had the experience of growing up in a community of girls. Of course, it wasn’t all rosy but there was an awful lot of support. We were all leaders and students and athletes. We did it all and never questioned that we were the ones to do it. My years at Lincoln were just as empowering as any brochure about single sex education claims the experience to be. In college and beyond, I never questioned my ability to lead and to think. I participated in classroom discussions and questioned professors. I never even considered dumbing myself down to impress a boy.
I was in a bit of a rush when I drove by Lincoln earlier this week and hadn’t intended to stop but a series of banners demanded to be photographed. Lining the street in front of Lincoln are banners celebrating the wisdom, leadership and intelligence of girls. With a hat tip to the “Like a Girl” video that I wrote about earlier this year, Lincoln clearly knows how to celebrate all the awesome things a girl can do.
Read moreAnne of Modern Mrs. Darcy has re-named her monthly reading link up and I love the new name, Quick Lit. So each month, check out my reads under the title Quick Lit instead of Twitterature.
Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand. I read this book for my book club and probably wouldn’t have read it if it weren’t for book club. I liked it and am glad I read it and it reminded me of why I like being in book clubs. They really do push you to read beyond your comfort level.
We Are Called to Rise by Laura McBride. I liked this book about how the paths of strangers come to cross until I couldn’t stand it. The ending ruined this book for me. That said, I really, really liked it until then so I think I might still recommend it!
The Signature of All Things by Elizabeth Gilbert. After meeting Elizabeth Gilbert this summer, I was very excited to read this book. I began reading it and then some book cut in line. I don’t remember what it was but it must have been for book club or for a Great New Books review. Regardless, when it was time to get back to Signature of All Things, I didn’t feel compelled to do so. Until… two of my reader friends asked me recently if I had finished Signature yet. I decided it was time to do so, so I did and I am so glad. This book is truly the saga that it is described to be and well worth the time it takes to read all 500+ pages.
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