The plate you see above was Katherine’s during Thanksgiving dinner last year. She was at her most picky and literally ate only bread. And only the middle of that bread.
As I thought ahead to our meal this year with hopes of a broader menu for Katherine, I was reminded of a piece I wrote about using reading to help picky eaters. I haven’t tried many of these tricks in quite awhile. Seems like it might be a good time to practice what I preach.
My piece (and a food themed book list) follows:
Picky Eater? Try These Out of the Book Ideas
If you have a picky eater, you’ve tried all the tricks. You’ve pureed spinach into your brownies. You’ve topped your pancakes with blueberry and strawberry smiley faces. You’ve come up with cute names like Bobby Broccoli and Katie Cauliflower. And your picky eater is still picky.
When my girls were young, I read aloud all the time. I read during breakfast, while playing with blocks, over a snack and before naps. Perhaps because the girls weren’t yet great conversationalists, reading was way to start a conversation or to keep one going. While always fun, I also learned that reading could be helpful at times. Both of my girls would have rather played than sat still for a meal. When I read, though, the story held their attention and their place at the table.
Your answer to a more developed palate may just be found in the aisles of the library and not the grocery store. If your eldest eats only white foods and your youngest prefers only cheese, read on for some out of the box (or in this case, out of the book) ideas.
Read, then run: For young children, running and jumping may be more fun than chewing and swallowing. If you can capture a child’s attention as they sit at the table, they will eat more bites before the joy of movement takes them out of their seat. By placing a basket of books at the kitchen table and rotating the selection frequently, you will succeed in holding a child’s attention.
Leave them hanging: Snack and meal times are great opportunities to introduce chapter books to young listeners. Right when you get to a juicy part, stop reading. Promise that you will read again at the next snack or meal. Children will be so excited to hear about the solution to their favorite character’s problems, they may not notice that they are trying a new vegetable or an often rejected side dish.
Learn about a culture: Fill your basket with books about one culture. And then, present foods from that culture as you read. How about books set in Italy as you introduce a new meatball recipe? Or a book with a Korean main character as you enjoy home made Bi Bim Bop? As children are surrounded by different words, colorful landscapes and interesting traditions through books, a new food may be just the perfect partner.
Choose a recipe: Placing cooking magazines in your basket is another way to encourage creative eating and reading at the same time. Not all reading must be done in books. For many children, the joy of looking through a magazine will engage them in a way that books don’t. While you sit and eat a meal with your child, flip through the pages of a magazine, commenting on delicious recipes. Give your child a chance to look with you or if they are old enough, to leaf through their own magazine. When they find a yummy looking recipe, mark the page and plan to create the recipe with or for your child.
Write a Cumulative Story: Keep a blank book in your basket or even a few sheets of blank paper stapled together. Each time you sit down for a meal or a snack, ask your child to dictate part of a story. Add on and on until the story feels complete. Over the course of a week, you’ll be amazed to see creativity grow. And with this creativity comes more focused time at the table. With this time, more and more new foods can be introduced as your picky eater turns into a more adventurous eater and writer.
Food Themed Book List
Little Pea- Amy Krouse Rosenthal
LMNOP- Keith Baker
The Incredible Book Eating Boy- Oliver Jeffers
Dragons Love Tacos- Adam Rubin
Orange Pear Apple Bear- Emily Gravett
The Duckling Gets a Cookie- Mo Willems
Clever Jack Takes the Cake- Candace Fleming
Like Pickle Juice on a Cookie- Julie Sternberg
Rah! Rah! Radishes: A Vegetable Chant- April Pulley Sayre
Bee Bim Bop- Linda Sue Park
Yummy Yukcy- Leslie Patricelli
ABC Apple Pie- Alison Murray
How Many Jelly Bean- Alison Menotti
Lemons Are Not Read- Laura Vaccaro Seeger
Creepy Carrots- Aaron Reynolds